Your bridal party is your frontline, they are the ones pulling the strings on the day so you can focus on what matters like eating cake, dancing and looking your best. Picking your bridal party roles and responsibilities carefully is of the utmost importance, you’ll want only those most trusted and reliable of friends to have your back and share in your joys intimately.
You may be struggling with how to choose bridal party members. Having a big party can be fun and means more hands to lighten the load whereas a small group can be more focused and less chaotic. There’s a lot to consider but at the end of the day your choice should be made based on what means most to you, having everyone there, laughing and enjoying the day or just those intimate few who you can’t do without to calm your nerves.
Roles and responsibilities
The person of honour is your second in command, they will help with every detail of planning from picking dresses to organising the pre-wedding parties. But organising is just the beginning, their true job is to provide emotional support on the day and to ensure everything goes according to plan. Another key role they take on will be conflict resolution, when the stakes are high then breakdowns and tempers can come alive, choosing someone not only trusted but with a cool head is going to make all the difference.
The bridesmaids and men then are their second in command, their role is to make sure the maid of honour has enough time for you as well as to help with any cost or planning for bachelorette parties as well as little details that need a caring eye.
Not every couple chooses to have a flower girl but we think it’s just too cute to pass up. Traditionally a sister, niece or daughter, the flower girl walks behind the bride down the aisle dropping petals with a flower crown on her head.
The ring bearer is typically a boy belonging to the groom’s family however we have seen a trend on the rise of letting go of gender roles which goes across the board, even to the best man. It is his job to bring the rings to the couple at the crucial moment of the ceremony so make sure to pick someone sure of foot and not easily distractible by the wedding cake.
Choosing the right officiant is major. Their role is not only to be the central voice of the ceremony but also to attend to the paperwork. If you want a sombre or jolly affair then the atmosphere usually comes down to your choice here.
Communication
Regular updates is key to smooth sailing and wedding party etiquette. Having regular meetings during the build-up will help everyone to understand their role as well as to make sure everyone is punctual and informed on the day.
Having trusted loved ones in your corner can make all the difference on your wedding day, turning it from a solo effort into a day where you can relax, knowing everything is taken care of. Clear communication and a well-thought-out plan are key; with a strong, organized team by your side, your wedding can be as effortless and enjoyable as you deserve. Surround yourself with people who stay calm under pressure and understand your vision for the day, and you’ll be able to fully enjoy every moment.